10 Apr

Chaturbate bio

URL: https://es.chaturbate.com/p/robinlisa/?tab=bio

Hi! I'm a dancer.

!!!! PMs are 20 tokens. Fan club is $9/mo !!!!
Broadcast requests I will do, but only if you tip me a token or two.
Hang around on Foot-Fetish Fridays, Super Soaker Sundays, and Tit-Teaser Tuesdays!

FFF: Lower body parts only, usually in pantyhose. No sex / dildos / ect
SSS: Watch me rub, squeeze, and tease as I tidy things up
TTT: My usual titty play, but no other activities (such as my dancing)

I highly recommend following my camsite for details on sales, discounts, and other offers.
Send me a message on Twitter, Instagram, or my camsite to request a private show at your leisure.

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09 Apr

INSPIRE ME

Where have you been?
Wishing I was with you...
I haven't seen you in forever?
You can always be honest with me...
I missed how beautiful you are?
Says no one ever...

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04 Apr

NEW Albums!

EVEN MORE NEW CONTENT on Chaturbate https://es.chaturbate.com/p/robinlisa/?tab=bio and MFC Share https://share.myfreecams.com/Robinnllisa

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02 Apr

Should I stay or should I go?

Where do I belong?
I love being able to come here and write to you.
I have difficulty finding contentment in my location. I always wonder if there is someplace else I may have fun. Where I am is it livable? Should I go someplace fun on a adventure... I know that I am in control of where I am, to the best of my ability.
I need to spend more time on me, just ensuring that I am everything that you want me to be. I know that if I am in the wrong place, I am not too motivated to do what is right. I do have a lot of energy on my hands and giving the wrong person my energy, is not the way to go.

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29 Mar

Lower prices on photos!

Chaturbate prices: 100 tokens for $10.99, or $.10 per token
MFC prices: 200 Tokens for $19.99, or $.10 per token
Am currently selling ALBUMS on ChB for as low as $1.00
And selling ALBUMS on MFC (share) for as low as $2.50
Go check them out! My username is the same. Thanks!!!

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06 Mar

Why do I cam?

I've been a camgirl for over 6 months now. My initial draw was the need to be able to have a flexible schedule and the need to fulfill my insatiable libido!!!
Now what keeps me going are the people I meet and the memorable experiences! I have learned so much about what drives people wild while also learning about my growing love of being a femdom and giantess! Never would I have thought my large size nine feet and gangly 6ft self could be lusted after but now they are source of confidence.
I have always wanted to help people feel confident in being themselves and when I started this journey I didn't know I could bring that philosophy into camming but now I know that it is the most important part to me.

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11 Jan

Needing Some Advise!

So a little stressed and overwhelmed. I hope some of you awesome experienced cam models can help! I started to Cam on flirt4free about 2 months ago. I have only cammed three times, two times by myself for two hours and one time with my boyfriend as a couple for three hours. I have a history of getting stuck in my head and focus on my insecurities so every time it comes time to push the start button I freeze and end up not caming. I have gotten great responses and the tips haven't been bad either. I honestly don't know why I block myself. I do have insecurities but have been able to get past that. It seems there's always 1200 hoops to jump through when I go to cam. I bought the lush lovense because the actual site said it was compatible with Flirt4Free, but it doesn't stay connected. I know they are soud activated as well, but I love having music on and not sure how to do that with music. I'm sure the majority of people would ask why don't you just go on without it? I honestly believe it will increase my tips and I'm not 100% exactly comfortable getting fully nude in privates just yet. So I originally bought that interactive toy so men and women can have a reason to tip me without needing to see me diddle myself lol. I am curious on other sites just want to pick the right one. If anyone has any advise I would greatly appreciate it!

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04 Jan

How not to suck at Financial Domination

If you're new to Financial Domination; you've probably been asking yourself this question. Maybe you've seen other findoms on social media posting details of the tributes they've received and you're wondering "why isn't it like that for me?"

Well it's simple. Findom isn't an exact science. Neither is it a get-rich-quick-scheme. Findom is very much a psychological fetish, which takes time and effort to learn and a lot longer to find those who have a genuine interest in exploring this fetish with you.

Let's cut through some of the myths surrounding this fetish and we start by you totally forgetting what you've seen on social media.

Financial Domination is NOT about sitting on twitter, calling subs piggies and demanding they pay you. If that is your approach to the fetish; then you're not going to last very long at all.

The tweets you see are not always genuine tributes - rather fees paid for a session, but masked as a tribute to look good.

Neither is it taking pictures of the intimate areas of your body and expecting subs to shower you with tributes. Why would they pay for something they've just seen for free? Treat them mean, keep them keen!

No, Financial Domination is much more complex than that but, if done correctly; can be both fun & rewarding.

The whole point of Financial Domination is about psychological control. If you are doing it right; you won't need to demand tributes. They will be given freely. Why? Because you have managed to have a sub become so captivated by you; they WANT to give simply to show their admiration. They are fueled by their desire to make you happy; and give without any form of encouragement.

So how do you get to this stage? Well, here's where the hard work starts.

RELAX - IT'S NOT A RACE!

Let's imagine you meet somebody on a night out. You think he's cute and he's giving you all the signals that he likes you. But when you start chatting, would you immediately expect him to move you into his apartment, marry you and have children with you? Of course not! You'd want to get to know him and have him get to know you; to find out if you are compatible.

You might go on a few dates to see where it leads. If it leads in a good direction; you'd start a relationship with them, still getting to know each other along the way - the good and the bad, before eventually, things get more serious and you start talking about moving in together and eventually marriage.

This doesn't happen overnight. A relationship takes a long time to build. It takes communication, trust, honesty and compromise.

The same can be said for Financial Domination.

It is completely unrealistic to expect a stranger you've never spoken to before, to part with his money because you say so. He wants to get to know you and see if the both of you click. You both need to establish a rapport and see if indeed, he is right for you! And yes; he needs to be able to trust you. There's a lot of scam artists out there and he may well have had his fingers burned. It's your job to prove you aren't going to do that to him.

That's not to say your attention should be free. There is absolutely nothing wrong with expecting payment for online chat, webcam sessions, phone chat sessions etc. But understand that these are fees - he's paying for a service. He's NOT sending tributes.

Remember; tributes are gifts given freely, without expecting anything in return.
Fees are payment for services.

But; if he's not even prepared to pay for a session with you, no matter what type it is; walk away - he's not entitled to any more of your time for free.

However; if you find yourself having regular sessions with him, and even chatting casually on social media outside of sessions, that's where the building blocks of the relationship are laid. You're finding yourself casually chatting on social media (non sexual, i.e not what you would discuss in session), he's retweeting your tweets without being asked to do so, and the relationship is flourishing. He's doing things to please you - like posting humiliating pictures of himself and tagging you in them. He's doing all these things for one reason and one reason only - for your approval.

Once that happens, and happens with regularity, the chances are you'll find the odd tribute heading your way - and you won't even need to ask him. He'll do it willingly and freely, simply because he wants to please you.

All you've done is communicate, tease him & created a professional relationship with him - by being yourself. And now, he's hooked.

So how long does it take to form this type of relationship with a potential financial sub? My answer to that is; how long is a piece of string? It could take weeks, months even years. But it WON'T happen straightaway. It will take as long as it takes and if you attempt to rush it, or demand tribute before you have gained your submissive's trust; you won't see them for dust. Remember what we said about a marriage proposal before the first date? Yup; it's gonna scare anybody off.

To give you an insight as to how long it can take; I was practising Financial Domination for over a year before I found My first financial sub. I've been in the scene for 10 years - and in that time I've had 4 genuine financial subs and a whole lot of potential timewasters. I say "potential" because when it comes to sessions; they get a big fat nothing until and unless they pay the fees up front. If they don't pay, I forget they exist and never engage with them again.

I'VE HAD SO MANY TIMEWASTERS CONTACT ME! WHAT AM I DOING WRONG?

And that leads Me on to My next point - how to avoid the timewasters and even more importantly; how to ensure you're not a target for timewasters!

Those who post regular "pay for My dinner," or "I need to pay my rent, pay me now!" scream desperate. And timewasters know this. They approach; promise to pay ridiculous amounts of money then vanish. They do this because they get off on the idea of you getting into a state because you've been promised cash they have no intention of sending. Indeed; timewasting has become a fetish in itself. I shall point out that a Domme who can't afford to pay for her own dinner or pay her own rent, is not in control of her life. This isn't attractive to a potential sub.

By all means; tweet a tribute link and invite subs to contribute. But don't demand it. You will come off as desperate and timewasters love this.

Another tactic is for them to send messages and tweets to multiple Dommes. Check their timeline - is it full of "hey miss, follow me"? If so; avoid. They're looking for free attention without the paperwork.

And of course there's the boys who want to pay via Paypal.

I cannot stress this enough. NEVER EVER EVER OFFER PAYPAL AS A PAYMENT METHOD - EVER!!! Be it for tributes or fees; it's simply not worth it.

Paypal clearly state in their terms and conditions that they do not allow transactions for adult-related services. Financial Domination is still sex work - therefore it is adult-related. If Paypal find out, and they will, they will close your account, take any money you have in your account and you can NEVER have an account with them again. There are plenty of adult-friendly means of receiving payments and tributes from subs - Paypal isn't one of them.

And of course; payments can be reversed on Paypal. Imagine the scenario - sub sends payment for a skype session - you do the session, then log in to your Paypal account to find he's clawed the money back. The upshot is, you've given him a free session. And THAT'S why the timewasters love Paypal.

This can and does also happen with Amazon Gift Certificates - so always redeem first. I shall point out that Amazon isn't always sex-worker friendly, so exercise caution when using them. While we are on the subject of Amazon and wishlists - NEVER accept a gift as payment for a session, particularly if from Amazon - gifts can be and are cancelled by timewasters.

Finally, on the subject of timewasters, trust your gut. Remember; if something sounds too good to be true, it probably is. This means that if you get sub who claims he wants to give you £1000 or have you rinse his credit card; he's on the con. Genuine subs don't offer - they give. Timewasters dangle tributes like a carrot on a string. Don't bite - they're not going to part with that cash.

BE GRATEFUL!!!

So; you've established a strong relationship with your sub and the tributes & gifts are coming in. Now is the time to show YOUR appreciation! ALWAYS thank them - yes, I know it goes against the grain, but they are human beings just like you. They've parted with their hard-earned cash. The least you can do is be grateful! Post a picture of their gift and thank them. Shoot a clip of you wearing any clothing gifts, and mention them - make it a FREE clip too! If it's a gift card - send a simple thank you note. BE NICE! If they know they've made you happy; they will tribute again. Treat them like dirt, and they won't - unless they like being treated like that of course - which they will be keen to tell you. A simple thank you message, tweet, or clip costs you nothing. But it will mean the world to them.

DON'T BE GREEDY.

Like you; a sub has financial responsibilities outside of the scene. He's NOT going to risk his home and go bankrupt, because you expect it. And if he's prepared to, then you shouldn't be prepared to allow that. Debt is not exciting and neither is being homeless.

Remember; you are a luxury in his life. He pays you after he's paid the bills he needs to pay - the essentials he cannot live without. Telling him not to pay his mortgage because he needs to pay you is not only irresponsible, it's also unrealistic. How's he going to keep paying you if he doesn't have an internet connection, mobile phone, debit card or even a home? Think about it - he can't give you anything if he has nothing.

While it is unreasonable to expect your sub to sacrifice his essentials; it is NOT unreasonable to expect him to sacrifice luxuries like a trip to the cinema, those new trainers he's had his eye on, or a night out with the lads. Wants and needs. He NEEDS to pay his bills, but he WANTS to pay you AND enjoy a night out. One of those wants has to go. If he's devoted enough; he'll sacrifice the night out. If he doesn't then don't worry. You're just not quite there in your relationship, yet.

Be responsible. If you get the slightest suspicion he's heading for financial disaster, that's when it stops being fun. And when the fun stops; STOP! He will have the greatest respect for you, if you refuse his tribute because you know he really cannot afford it. If it's a blip; he'll likely up his tribute when he can afford to. If it's more serious, he will still be loyal in other ways. Ex-financial subs can be of use in graphic design, promotion, clip editing....especially if you have a lot of mutual trust between you.

Remember; home-wrecking might be fun in a fantasy sense. But in reality; people in debt are at a greater risk of suicide - do you really want that on your conscience? YOU are responsible for your sub - 100%. If he's in "sub space" he may not be able to make a responsible decision about his desire to give, at the risk of his financial situation. That means the onus is on YOU to spot the signs.

ALTERNATIVES TO PAYPAL

As I've already mentioned; there are many ways to receive payments and tributes, without risking your Paypal account. Keep that account strictly for your vanilla life.

NiteFlirt is a good place to receive payments - yes, they take commission, but your money is safe and can be paid by bank transfer or cheque.

Delivery Code is a good one too. You can receive payment in the form of gift voucher. You then have the option of using it to purchase items from your wishlist, or having it converted to cash and paid into your bank. The added bonus of Delivery Code is that they do not allow cancellations - so no danger of gifts or vouchers being cancelled.

WebstreamUK is a very adult-friendly payment processor - you can receive payments in the form of donations, as well as offer phone chat, webcam session, clips and pictures, AND get paid by bank transfer. There are no fees to set up. All you need is a good established website.

https://iwantclips.com/ is another adult-friendly site, where you can sell clips, pictures and receive tributes. Payment is monthly or bi-monthly (depending up on amount earned) by ECheck or Wire transfer.

So in conclusion; if you're smart, patient and prepared to put a lot of time in researching Financial Domination AND the BDSM scene, you'll do well. If you're expecting to be inundated with tributes from day one; My advice is to get your head out of the clouds and come back down to earth. I've seen one girl give up her vanilla job the moment she became a Findom - and then wondered why her bank account was in the red. Don't expect this fetish to be your sole source of income - unless you've got it down to fine art, after many years of experience. Good things come to those who wait!


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